Coda meeting4/14/2023 *The way to let go of compulsive Codependency (and other addictions) is to engage in an in-depth process of emotional healing and self-nurturing. Unmistakably, depriving yourself of Codependency SYMPTOMS is no solution to your problem of emotional deprivation. The more YOU restrict your SEEMING LOVE intake, the more deprived you can feel, and many of us get to a point where we can’t take it any longer… On top of this fact, YOUR remorse and disgrace sets up a vicious circle of more codependency self-reproach and further emotional seeking…called the psychological addiction cycle.CoDA SUPPORT BASICLY DOES THE SAME THING… You finish your over indulgent of this "SEEMING LOVE" and what your left with is not a sense of fulfillment or inner peace but uncomfortable over-fullness, regret, self-deprecation and defeat.Īfter all is said and done, the healing and love YOU need is as elusive as ever. Unfortunately, Codependency never really placates your deeper core issue of arrested emotional Dev. If you haven’t learned optimistic and productive ways of healing and nurturing yourself today, you then turn to the “false solutions” of codependency… These hurts fester in your subconscious adult mind, requiring your attention and healing. YOUR dysfunctional Codependency compensates for what you didn’t get/have while growing up. I believe that Codependency (and most other addictions) are caused by two things: the need to heal emotional injuries incurred during childhood and the need to give yourself the love, nurturing and comforting that wasn’t available in past childhood. NOTE: If you only deal with the symptoms, you might be temporarily successful, but you won’t actually address the real reasons for your Codependency behavior…how can you expect the symptom-relief to be effective long term? Codependency SUPPORT, by its nature, can’t conceivably work…īecause the group creates codependency to the Group or leader by it's very nature.Īlso.Codependency SUPPORT GROUPS merely deal with your symptoms and not with your real problem, which is the answer to this QUESTION. Well, it’s time to let yourself off the hook. ![]() Maybe you’ve tried one or more SUPPORT GROUPS IN YOUR AREA, and when they failed you blamed yourself. You probably already know this there is no Codependency Group out there that actually works. At the same time, I find several problems that I could not come to terms with.ĬODA Support GROUPS GENERALLY DON'T GET TO AND RELEASE THE DEEPER ISSUES LOCKED IN THE SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND.related to codependency. I acknowledge the value of these programs. I’m not here to bash CODA, AA-or any other 12 step-program. WHY do Co-Dependents Anonymous.Meetings FAIL 95%.ĬODEPENDENCY GROUPS are hugely popular programs with, in my opinion, less than successful results (about a 5% remission rate). ![]() Please use the contact page to get in touch if you need Skype details.The Collapse of Co-Dependents Anonymous Meetings & Online CoDA We do not currently have access to the Dublin skype meeting details however there are many other zoom meetings to choose from at the moment until physical meetings start again. * For more details about the Abbey Street meeting please EMAIL codaabbeystreet AT DUBLIN MEETINGSĪll Dublin meetings are currently being held via Skype. Galilee House, 19 Monksfield, next to Salthill Church Quaker Meeting House, Summerhill S, Ballintemple, Cork T12XW8R Oak Healthy Living Centre, Cross Street, Lisnaskea, Co Fermanagh Weds 8.00pm Westport *Video camera on with your face visible for this meeting as per group conscience Make recovery friends all over the world. Make the most of your recovery and travel via zoom. You can attend meetings anywhere in Ireland, or indeed anywhere in the world. The beauty of Zoom is you don’t have to live in Galway to attend the Galway meetings. Most meetings are being held on Zoom currently.
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